Want to Orgasm? Get Your Head in the Game
Your sky-high electric bill, that big meeting at work, last night’s episode of The Kardashians — are you constantly thinking about everything but sex when you’re having sex?
Join the club — research reported in the journal Sexologies points out that many women have difficulty reaching orgasm because of their wandering, distracting thoughts mid-romp. And oftentimes, those thoughts are negative, according to the study’s 191 participants (troubling thoughts included sexual dysfunction, body image issues, even sexual abuse).
If your mind keeps wandering during sex, you may want to make a conscious effort to keep your mind on the prize.